JomSocial allow site administrators to modify the structure of JomSocial toolbar to fit the unique requirement. This can easily be achieved by modifying the content of JomSocial Toolbar menu items. Simply go to Joomla Menu Manager > JomSocial Toolbar and edit the items to your will.
Using Joomla Menu Manager, you can include any link to JomSocial menu. This will help you to put internal Joomla/JomSocial links and external URL on JomSocial Toolbar easily
Since its being just another menu item, you can publish the JomSocial Toolbar menu items into native Joomla menu module.
This however will not allow you to have toolbar styled as it can be seen in JomSocial Component
The menu published inside Joomla native menu, will look exactly as all other menus you publish on the site.
To achieve same visual appeal of the toolbar across whole site, you will have to download and use third party toolbar modules that are available in our addon section
http://www.jomsocial.com/addons/modules/qbar-jomsocial-toolbar-module
http://www.jomsocial.com/addons/modules/knu-jomsocial-toolbar-everywhere